There is a popular saying that goes, "Only God sees the heart. Another is, "Only God can judge me."
Dear, those are untrue statements. The latter is a sorry excuse to do dirt and refuse to clean up or take accountability for our actions.
I'll tell you why.
God sees the heart and reveals the intentions within it to the one who inquires.
Certain behaviors become glaringly obvious when you mature spiritually.
Red flags are in our faces. Choose to see them or be scorched by the burn.
Accountability requires assessment of wrong to call it out - peer judgment.
Love doesn't tolerate ignorance.
So, with this info we are equipped with, let's evaluate our hearts/intentions & make updates that will transform us into better people all around.